Renounce Nothing

What doest it mean to love? It means to be sensitive to life, to things, to persons, to feel for everything and everyone to the exclusion of nothing and no one. For exclusion can only be achieved through a hardening of oneself, through closing one’s doors. And the moment there is a hardening, sensitivity dies….

Okay, here I go…..

Hello fellow Bon Vivants, For today I keep it really short. It’s a beautiful day out here, nice and sunny ūüôā and as soon as I finish this post I am going to enjoy every bit of it. Just wanted to share with you that for the next week I’ll be totally offline. Tomorrow I…

The first week

Hey¬†fellow travelers! It’s been a really interesting week and a half so far. 12 days ago I left Spain to go to Liechtenstein. Driven by a force in me that was in desperate need for some sense in this madness. A few weeks before I left¬†I found this website International School of Tantra¬†and I knew…

Living my life

Let me start by introducing myself; My name is Vincent, 41 years ago born in the Netherlands. The last few months I started this blog, already feeling that there is something in me that needs to come out. Although I shared with you bits and pieces of my real life combined with wisdom I strongly…

What is love

The last couple of months I have been a little bit out of my normal here and now happy routine compared with the 2 and a half years before that. On a personal emotional level I came across a few challenges and found that I had more hidden pain from the past then I expected….

Feeling Anxious?…… Be Alert!

When you feel anxious, anxiety-ridden, what is one to do? What do you ordinarily do when anxiety is there? You try to solve it. You try alternatives, and you get more and more into it. You will create a bigger mess because anxiety cannot be solved through thinking. It cannot be dissolved through thinking because…

Training this Mind

As part of my daily routine I get up every morning around 6am, go outside and breath the fresh air of a new day. After making myself a coffee I go online and read something about Awareness to prepare for an hour of meditation. Today found the website of Ajahn Chah, who was kind of…

Being Happy is easier then you think….

The past two years I’ve been happier then ever before. Most of the time a constant flow of the feeling that everything is okay, enjoying whatever happens. And although I was looking for that happiness for many years before, it wasn’t until I stopped looking for it when I started to experience¬†Happiness. When I decided…

You are very special to me

Today I didn’t really want to post anything cause I was quit busy being happy, enjoying and working, although I am having a pretty bad stomach flu. But because of this stomach flu I had a long warm bath and some good reading ¬†which gave me a real great insight in what happened to me…

In between being asleep and Awakening

One of the most annoying things of the past few¬†months was that I couldn’t understand why I’ve been so happy and aware but I couldn’t hold on to it.¬†I experienced so much happiness the last two years, my life changed drastically and I thought that there would never be a going back to the asleep…

A little more background

This blog I initially started two years ago but I never put it online. I just started my journey inside and I was not clear of why I wanted to have a blog in the first place. It felt like I was too proud of what I am doing and it would have been just…